As for me and my house we will serve the Lord. Do you serve the Lord or do you serve the “church”? When Saul fell off his horse the Lord told him how he was going to glorify the Lord. When teachers and prophets were praying the Holy Spirit said set aside Paul and Barnabas for the work to which I have called them. The Holy Spirit chose the people and directed them not man.
To serve the Lord is to say here I am send me. We lay our life on the altar and say let your will be done. We are co-operating in the Lords work, we are not initiating it. Its his work and He chooses to use us that he may be glorified. Without him we can do nothing.